The older you are, the harder it is to learn another language. A toddler will pick up a language almost effortlessly; in fact, studies show that with enough exposure, it’s possible for a child to speak four or five languages at the same time, just by hearing it spoken constantly by an adult.

However, by the age of six or seven, learning a language takes hard work, a lot of practice, and a great deal more discipline and concentration. Aside from just exposure, we will also have to study the rules of a language through textbooks and drills.

This doesn’t mean that our ability to learn a language disappears; it just becomes more conscious. It is still possible to learn five languages (in fact, many scholars will take up several in order to study a text in its original) but the study has to be rigorous. And that’s what turns many people away from the idea of learning another language, even if it’s something like English.

There are many benefits to learning English, but the benefits are often clouded under the confusing structure and idiomatic structures of the language. Take heart! Not only are there numerous English language classes available, but the books, movies, websites and reading material offer plenty of opportunity to practice.

The key is to focus on the rewards of learning. And that lies outside of the textbooks. Surround yourself with the language, see it spoken in all its musicality and richness. That is why young children learn so fast. They don’t equate language with drills and rules, but as an opportunity to communicate and to discover new things about the world around them. In other words, they see the fun of learning a language.

If you are bored by the books open in front of you, take a break. Watch a Hollywood movie—see how much more amazing it is when you’re not trapped by watching the sub titles, which often lose so much in the translation? Or go on a website and talk to other English speakers on discussion forums. You’ll find that by interacting with other people, being rewarded for your efforts by making a new friend (or even setting up a date!), you’ll hit he books with more excitement and enthusiasm.